My idea of giving the letter or email & yours Mr B are opposite. Which way should I take? MR B..yours would be a 180 but I would rather be the apologizing lady I've always been. frown
I do apologize & tell him that I take full responsibility for my A & that feelings of anger are normal for a betrayed spouse (tho not maintained anger) but then I also have the tendency to want him to understand my pain too. Actually the other night I mentioned about getting over his previous affairs & he looked me in the eyes & said "I did Not have an affair" I guess he thinks its fine as long as you don't have sex.


H;30 M;31
M9yr
D9 D7 D3
H EA 2009 EA 11
Me PA 2012
H-ILYBNIL 5/13 in EA maybe PA