My idea of giving the letter or email & yours Mr B are opposite. Which way should I take? MR B..yours would be a 180 but I would rather be the apologizing lady I've always been. I do apologize & tell him that I take full responsibility for my A & that feelings of anger are normal for a betrayed spouse (tho not maintained anger) but then I also have the tendency to want him to understand my pain too. Actually the other night I mentioned about getting over his previous affairs & he looked me in the eyes & said "I did Not have an affair" I guess he thinks its fine as long as you don't have sex.
H;30 M;31 M9yr D9 D7 D3 H EA 2009 EA 11 Me PA 2012 H-ILYBNIL 5/13 in EA maybe PA