PM, let me ask you something.

Is holding onto her giving you what you want?

I'm thinking that it isnt.

So, there is the possibility that letting go, can.

Letting go doesnt mean giving up.

I feel that lovingly letting her go is the ultimate act of love.

It is saying that you cherish her enough to want her to be happy, even if that means it isnt with you.

It is telling her that you hear her. You hear that she wants to be independent.

And if in the future, it is meant to be for the two of you to look towards each other, then, you will have become the person you were meant to be and will be able to enter a new relationship with her from a place of strength.