I am going to think long and hard about this one. I do not want to make any quick decision. Right now I feel horrible being around my H. I think I will just detach physically more from him, and, definitely, detach more emotionally as well. I think I am still letting what he says and does bother me. I need to detach from all of those feelings and emotions, because it is making me hurt so much.
The other day when he got home from work I told him I was going shopping. He ended up getting mad at me when I returned, because he had told me earlier that he wanted to work on the basement. I kept calm, and did not even bring it up that all he has done lately is work on the basement. Instead, I told him that I needed space, and that I'm sure he understood that. He then told me that, yes, he understood. Up until then I don't think he realized that this was affecting me as well.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
