I agree with Thumpered. At least your W vacillates back and forth. Sure its painful, and disappointing at the same time...but at least she has an emotional connection to you. For those like me with a WAW who has completely detached and emotionally and physically left the R/M....I guess its a mixed bag of good an bad. One could argue at least we know where we stand and not have to ride the roller coaster.

Your doing ok Breakdown. Stay strong and stay the course.

Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013