BD- I was wondering where you were since I haven’t seen your posts in a little while. I’m sorry to hear you had to sign the papers and I was hoping it did not come to that. But I am sure you have made your decision with enough time, self-reflection, and your future in mind. You are right on OM being an addiction and sometimes you have to just step back and let the chips fall where they may. You have given your W many chances and been able to work on yourself. I don’t know about you but I don’t think I would have honestly looked within myself to see what I have contributed to the state of M if it was not for this. If anything, that is one positive that will come out of this is working through these feelings. Good luck to you and your family in your journey BD!


Me:36,W:37
M:8, T:13
S:3yo, D:10yo (mine)
BD 10/12 and 01/13
DBing since 02/13
W moved out 8/13