I am very close to telling my H that I would like him to stay at his brother's house. I do not care if it is a temporary separation or not, or trial separation, I just cannot bare to be in the same house as him. He is bringing me down with him in his depression. I do not want to go down with him. I do not even know if I would like him to be around the children in his state of mind. He is so closed off, distant, quiet. I do not think that is healthy. I feel he needs help. I am worried for him. frown


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.