When you are getting along, it's because this is the easy way for her to get through the day. You ask less questions, there's no need to get into discussions- its just polite pleasantness- like interacting with a work colleague or roommate that you don't like, but you keep the peace.
I've wondered if this was the case, and I believe its more true everyday. I think she is also being nice to me because, as she put it, "she feels bad". I don't need her sympathy. I'm a big boy who is getting stronger everyday.
I really think I'm ready to pull away. I was scared to before, but now a big part of me WANTS to pull away. The longer I take to do it, the more she will believe I am okay with being just friends. I am not. I can be friendly, but I don't want to be just friends. I want to be her H. She can't have the parts of me she wants, without working through the hard stuff.
M:34 W:36 M:10 T:15 D:9 S:5 BD:12/12 Worked on the M for 6 mo before W saying it was over 5/13.
