Hey Bets, thanks for the reminder that it really is P's job to work through her guilt.

Wonka, I'm glad that expressing forgiveness helped in your sitch. There's a good chance I'd slug someone who said that to me.

I think that what I'm aiming for is to demonstrate that I hold no grudges and am not holding anything against her in my heart.

Her birthday passed. Silence from me. That was hard. I appreciate y'all leading me through that one, Val and Bets.


Me - 54
P - 59
Together 5 yrs
She left 4/2012