. your text demonstrated that you're more concerned with how you feel, when she is not interested in that, but if you reread db and the 37 rules you may see this as part of a typical pattern and not more than that. .
Not sure I understand what you mean?
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB