Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
May sound weird but I at least want the legal end of this finished. We both agreed to a fair deal that won't ruin me financially.
She definetely asked alot of questions of how I was doing Commented on how good I looked. I lost about 50 lbs. Asked if I was still going to church.
One of her friends had seen me out with another woman and asked me questions about that. Just told her I was out on a few dates but realized that I was trying to feel the void of her and wasn't ready that yet. Which is true.
I ended the conversation and said well I guess we've discussed everything i'm gonna get going.
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB
Backslid this morning talked to her on the phone and told her seeing her brought back a lot of feelings and just wanted to make sure we didn't leave any stone unturned. She of course said that there was no changing her mind and was glad we were civil.
And that I will be better off when I get to a happy place.
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB
textbook response to unwanted pursuit. sorry. your text demonstrated that you're more concerned with how you feel, when she is not interested in that, but if you reread db and the 37 rules you may see this as part of a typical pattern and not more than that. focus on you now, keep on becoming a man only a fool would leave.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
. your text demonstrated that you're more concerned with how you feel, when she is not interested in that, but if you reread db and the 37 rules you may see this as part of a typical pattern and not more than that. .
Not sure I understand what you mean?
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB
Gotta pull myself together again. I keep texting her trying to get her to change her mind and give us a chance. I feel I tried everything.
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB
not trying to be a smart a$$, but have you tried DB'ing?
Like me, its back to DB101 for us both!
Good luck!
wfm
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
