Hi Mr Bond, I knew the mother in question very well, also the son and he himself told me, that on his 14th birthday he told is dad to F-ck off forever. And I don't blame him one bit. His dad only cared about himself and he would go missing for months at a time with no concerns for is son or wife!
Love Delboy
P.S The son is now a qualified Scuba diving instructor and he resides in the Carabean.