Divorced-not done-But wondering ?

[whitneypinch]

Yep, early on I did a bunch of DB coaching. I also went to therapy for a year.

Early on it was too painful to do things together with the kids.
The truth is now would be the ideal time to do stuff together as a family or just her and I. Unfortunately she is with someone else. I have asked her out for a walk recently but she said "she can't, and I should not ask".

I have read about 20 books on marriage, divorce, relationships, love, communications etc.
I am very familiar with the Scruggs story. Its heartbreaking and inspirational, especially what happened to their daughter.

So, as you can see, I have done it all.
Even my XW has comment on what an awesome father and person I am......
So, what can ya do..

I just continue to grow as a person and be kind and appreciative.