Have you done any DB coaching ? Have you tried doing some family things together...like holidays or activities? What other books have you read? The other book that helped me was give to me by my brother after he saw a marriage work shop thru his church..."I do again" by Cheryl & Jeff Scruggs A good read as well as some great point on marital roles.
M 52 W 40 D 15 (step) S 12 (step) Married 7, together almost 8 Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..." BD final 8/22/12
