Wow! That is phenomenal assistance, Kaffe. I thank you once again for your continued support. grin

Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
It sounds that while your W was contemplating the M, she had not yet come to a conclusion as to WHEN she might BD.

Yes, I think that my letter may have prompted her to act. After all, i gave her a perfect opening... crazy

Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
Do you know if anything appears to have changed for her, from that past "laundry list"?

I am unsure what you mean. Do you mean are there any other items that she has added to the list, or taken off? I certainly have been working on the list and believe that i have made great strides forward in addressing the items on the list. My wife dod not want to talk about the list when i brought it up. Instead she chided me for reading her personal stuff. Later on she removed the notes from her book...i don't know where they are now. Probably the bin. It matters not to me because just knowing that they existed is enough for me. My W plays things very close to her chest and i have trouble getting her to talk....so i have stopped that! More soon...


Me: 49
W: 47
M: 19 T: 25
Son:19
Dau:13
Son:6
BD: Aug: 2012
Separated - same house: May, 2013
Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013
W looking to move out: January 2014
Dau says go, I move out: June 2014