B, I find it hard to believe that there is nothing you can do about your H striking your son. If it happened once I'd get a restraining order. You might want to consult with another attorney or see if the family court has resource people who can guide you through your options. I would think your H is quickly sabotaging his right to joint custody. In my state teenagers have a say in whether they want a relationship with a parent or not. I am so sorry that you and the boys are dealing with this. I hope the action you took will give you protection and peace of mind. I am concerned about you.
