I agree Bklyn. I wonder sometimes if its the Effexor causing it. It's like she wants to be "in love" but can't be.

I know the Effexor numbs her. She's been on it 14 months. Is it possible it's losing its effectiveness? In dont know. Maybe I'm still trying to rationalize what's happened to her.

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later