Do not rush to any quick decision whatever you do.. you have a lot more fight in you. Keep at it! I know, we also have to remember, for whatever the reason is, our spouses are depressed, and that is something to consider as well. That can take quite a toll on someone, and since we are their spouse, we should do all that we can do to help them in their situation. They are certainly not seeing things clearly at the moment, that is for sure! They are just as confused as we are.

Stay strong and I am here if you need me.


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.