Looking to keep hope alive

[ALF213]

Thanks for the replies H61 and Thumpered. It definitely took me a while to realize this is not the same person. Wish I had realized it sooner. Would have saved me some spinning...not all, but some. I am more myself than I have been since BD. That feels good, but I have a ways to go.

So W had a meeting with her best friend (also a WAW) and her lawyer boyfriend/affair guy (who also happens to be married and refuses to leave his W) to get advice about filing. You can't make this stuff up. Sometimes I just have to laugh at things like this in my sitch.

She says she knows what steps to take now. I need to start thinking about if I want to keep trying, and how to go about that, after she files. I assume that will be very soon.