I see so much hope in your wife's words but what scares me is how disjointed they are and how she clearly is separating her actions from those they effect. She needs treatment before she can be in a relationship with you or anyone.

Her issues will not magically disappear, maybe you can her into a regular counseling

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13