It's wrong. It's maddening. Your job is to handle it in a way that does not add stress to D. She'll have plenty of opportunity to be aware of how her mom is being. Make sure she only gets calm, emotionally stable vibes from you.
Have a great trip!
Ugh!!! Yes thank you for the reminder and gentle slap upside the head... I cannot control her,I can control me and not my actions effect my D in a negative way. OOSSSSAAAHHHH!!!!
Originally Posted By: labug
subguy, unless it's life or death, I wouldn't sweat it. Figure out your bottom line and let the rest go. SD has a great point, focus on what's best for D.
I know don't sweat the small stuff... frigging layers and onions again.
At least I got my D a few extra days...
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
