Kind of makes me sad, I guess - because the one thing that she has consistently stated from BD to last week is that her heart is closed. And Sandi, I'm out of ideas on now to open it. I have done all that I can on my end to evolve and be......better. She acknowledges it, and still keeps a closed heart. And as long as that remains the case, really, what can I do?
I apologize for having two threads. This one will lock soon.
Sandi's post was powerful, basically what I read was: You have done the work on you and she has not. You cannot open her heart, she has to be willing to open it. You work on you and let the rest work itself out. Stay strong and trust in yourself, you have put the work in to make yourself better.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
