Thanks for the wise words guys much appreciated, I like the way you still call it 'our' room, no doubt keeps it in perspective. Had a good couple of days been backing off well, tonight I sat outside reading my book in the sun, she kept coming out to chat and mentioned she would like to talk about 'us' over the weekend to which I replied no problem..... Stomach is in knots as I don't no whether its good or bad and I don't want to think it through one way or the other. Part of me doesn't want the chat whether good or bad but I think it's because I am scared Oh well at least it will be sorted one way or another soon enough which is good, not much sleep tonight I think!!!!
Me: 39 W: 33 Son:7 Daughter:4 Its Over: March 7th 2013 Moved back home Mid June, trying to make it work