Thanks Linda, not sure if it was deliberate touching or not, and a couple times there was eye contact, but nothing "readable" ...
I think the less anxious the better, and even when we "think" we aren't showing it, our spouses know us too well and can pick up on it, which is pressuring I imagine. I know with W...pressure has been a complaint, MLC/issue driver, and something she has often had problems dealing with. I am pleased you found it useful
