The above advise from Kaffe Diem is spot on. Hard to implement but its what needs to be done for a healthier relationship.

He is going to want to change. The more you force it the further he will resist. Try not to get upset or argue as that will just reinforce his decision to leave.

Continue on improving yourself and be the best mom you can to those 3 wonderful daughters!

H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.