Going In Circles

[shouldistillhope]

I would also like to ask her at some point if she would be willing to take the kids to the park together after our D is final as friends only and just talk about out sitch and what went wrong/what some of the causes were.

Is this a bad idea? I feel maybe we can get some of these things off our chest if we don't feel any pressure because of the impending D.

It might help her open up and it would help me listen to her feelings and validate.

Anyone?