I must say well done sir! And congrats to your sitch but I'm sure the work continues.
I have to ask, how did you handle her grieving? You know that 1 year of NC w OM. How did you fill her love tank? I'm sure you thread that very carefully. My W, when I bust her EAs, she would fall into that withdrawal and then she'd backslide. What was your actions around the house? I'm sure the MC was a big help.
But during the first 3mos of that grieving is critical, I know my W won't want me to touch her, be sweet etc so I'm doing LRT, you know not initiating contact etc.
Sorry my q's are all over the place...I gotta get ready for work, but give me more yeah? Give me more of that interactions turning it around in that one year, when you have time I'm sure you're busy.
Thanks much! Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
