Hey Bluedown, I can relate to your situation bigtime. I enjoyed the family life, home, kids and all the joy that came with it. All that is now changed and do your best to brush yourself off and continue to move forward. Become a better you! Focus on being the best father you can be for your children. They need you more than you need your wife.
This all takes time, It will be the most challenging time in your life but as many others said it will get better.
My wife has been distant, mean and showing no emotions. This is how they help justify leaving. She is a shell of the person I fell in love with.
Let her comments and attitude bounce off you and keep a positive attitude, Law of attraction will come to play and it will all work out in the end with or without her!
H 37 WAW 32 S 4 (Autistic) S 2 Together 11 years Married 6 Bombshell Dec 1 2012 House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.