Another big reason I have been there for her lately is to show that I can be. She felt the last few years I haven't been there for her as much as I should have. I'm trying to figure out if its better to show her I can be there, or let her see what its like without me. I'm guessing the latter, but its been a tough decision for me. Is there some sort of middle ground? Should I be there for some things, but not all? Only the things she asks and I'm comfortable doing? Or is it better to just let her handle things on her own even if she asks?


M:34 W:36
M:10 T:15
D:9 S:5
BD:12/12
Worked on the M for 6 mo before W saying it was over 5/13.