Well..H just told me before he left for work he thinks a time of separation would do us good. I actually agree (tho I didn't comment to him) because I don't believe we would ever be able to work thro or resolve our issues if we stayed 2gether. Maybe if we separate we would be forced to actually resolve issues.
unfortunately my H is the type to walk away & not look back at what he left. Esp if he leaves when he is bitter & cant stand my guts.
I just don't know what to think.....
How can I just act happy when he feels like "I can just go on & he's left to deal w/ all the pain?" I totally get his feeling because he never acknowledged my pain, nor did OP. And I struggled W/ bitterness but most of it was projected on OP.
How can I get more input on my sitch? I NEED HELP!!!


H;30 M;31
M9yr
D9 D7 D3
H EA 2009 EA 11
Me PA 2012
H-ILYBNIL 5/13 in EA maybe PA