GTO, the job transfer might bring positive changes into your life. At the very least, it'll help you focus on the present moment.
I hear you when you say you feel your H is more like a stranger. I used to think Joe would "wake up" and be his better self, but then I realized the real Joe is present-time Joe, not the Joe I married or the Joe of 10 years ago. The same applies to you. This stronger you is the real you!
