You need to do some GALing with people very different from those you grew up with and those you now hang out with. It's hard to see a different way when everyone around you agrees with you.

Do you see how trying not to have people mad at you has blown up in your face? I've pushed you to define your values, who Sp is, so that you know what things to take a stand on, risk anger for and what things you can let slide. That's important, Sp.

And I agree with Ad, retraining your thoughts can help you rise above victim mode.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss