ssmguy I have been reading your posts and I salute you.
I too have found myself to be in a similar situation (but roles reversed). Great marriage, I'm really happy and love the guy. But the sex . . . still absent and, I fear, will always be an issue between us. I don't feel dumping the spouse for another is an answer. Yet I'm not sure how to survive the next 30 years.
You cannot make your wife "Seek to explore her inner self". All you can do is provide a supportive atmosphere, open the door and hope that she will walk through it.
ME 40 HIM 48 Married one year. First for him Second for me Proud parents of a baby girl
