Feelings come from thoughts and beliefs. Thoughts and beliefs are under your control. Yes you are very normal to be angry. Look around at all the normal angry divorced people you see. Being like them is your CHOICE. People here are trying to show you a different way.

Part of your anger comes from your belief that you were a victim, and retraining your thoughts to understand and accept that you are not a victim will help you learn to change how you feel.

So keep arguing that your anger is justified and you'll be fighting for your right to be an angry bitter man. It is, after all, normal.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.