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MrBond #2360010 06/20/13 11:11 AM
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Originally Posted By: MrBond
What is your plan in terms of paperwork? Get that out of the way first. Then take it slow with the conversation.


Thats the thing Bond this has all been agreed to and sent to the lawyersto be written up. Basically all she wanted was to keep her car thats in my name and make the payments. Pay for a credit card for her dog. Which she hasn't but i'm probably just gonna pay off to save my credit. it's less than 1k not worth haggling over. And she is suppose to get her own car insurance policy starting july 1st.

Alot of close friends think she curious what i'm up to or just being nosey or she's seeing that the grass isn't greener. Not sure?? Just if I have a oppurtunity to save this M I want to. I could be way over analyzing things. But when she started texting how i'm doing am I seeing anyone and if im still living alone kinda messed with my head.


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M:6/4/11
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W files for D 3/18/13
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Jeack #2360040 06/20/13 01:42 PM
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W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
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Jeack #2360165 06/20/13 07:44 PM
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Well she cancelled coming to the house. were meeting at a starbucks. Guess it is only about the D.


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1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
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She has OM Previous FWB
Jeack #2360192 06/20/13 08:42 PM
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Now i'm wondering if she going to try to get more from me. I gotta get my head straight suppose to meet at 7


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
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She has OM Previous FWB
Jeack #2360197 06/20/13 08:57 PM
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Well she cancelled coming to the house. were meeting at a starbucks. Guess it is only about the D.


Now that sounds familiar. Don't be surprised if she cancels that.

LBH_LC #2360198 06/20/13 09:01 PM
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Originally Posted By: LeftCoastLBH
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Well she cancelled coming to the house. were meeting at a starbucks. Guess it is only about the D.


Now that sounds familiar. Don't be surprised if she cancels that.


Oh i'm sure. Just worried she tried playing head games and is going to go for more $ from me.


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
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She has OM Previous FWB
Jeack #2360200 06/20/13 09:18 PM
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As frustrated and angry as I get, I try to give my wife's actions the most charitable reading whenever possible. Don't assume she is trying to hurt you. Maybe she is scared or confused.

LBH_LC #2360202 06/20/13 09:25 PM
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we shall see. I almost just cancelled her and said lets just discuss over the phone. I just have a bad feeling about all this. Gonna try and stay positive.


Me:34
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Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB
Jeack #2360205 06/20/13 09:33 PM
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Originally Posted By: Jeack
Gonna try and stay positive.


That's all you can do, sometimes.

LBH_LC #2360211 06/20/13 09:41 PM
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Thanks for responding. was feeling out in left field.


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB
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