" H is pushing hard for counseling for the boys, not because he wants them to have help with all that's happened, but because he's still trying to fast-track a relationship with them without doing any of the hard work."
You don't know what his reasons are for this. C would be good for your kids no matter what. Take care of their needs and stop mindreading your H's actions.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
