I certainly do not want to push her or rush her and have it backfire. We have sat down and discussed things and she is committed to working on marriage and making it work. We are currently in MC and we are very fortunate to have a great pro marriage solutions oriented counselor. Her main complaints were that I wasn't emotionally there for her, bad father and didn't financially support like a husband and father should. She said in MC that she has seen a big turnaround and that got her doubting divorce a few months ago. That's about when we started gettin along a lot better. I want to remain in the marriage because of the six years married so far only 1 year want great. The other 5 were happy. I also still love my wife and know who she can be. We also have a wonderful son that I think deserves us trying everything possible
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it