Yes you are correct I haven't detached and After reading your post I know I'm still chasing after H. I just don't know how to move on. I just need to know right now if there is any chance or not.
If you take this attitude of having to know everything right now. I can tell you the answer will end up being that he will end things. I know it [censored], it hurts. But you need to get a grip and give him space and time. Also Mr Bond is one of the Best on the boards he's asked you twice if you've purchased the book DR. If you haven't which it seems you haven't. Go to your laundry room and take the change container to coinstar and go buy the book and start reading. Chasing and begging and asking questions about the relationship will not help matters. It [censored] that just be honest about your feelings doesn't work.
What are you doing right now to make yourself the type of W that only a fool would leave?
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB