I don't normally post to you Crimson as I believe you are doing your best and are getting great support.

The following though, really caught my eye:
Originally Posted By: Crimson
Please believe me when I say I am not patting myself on the back here - I'm just making the point that when I talk to my other single female friends they ALL say that finding all of that at our age is tremendously difficult.

I understand you would not have taken their offer. How many of these single, female friends hit on you?

I ask you that because, even prior to being M, I'd have female friends tell me how much of a good guy I am and had so much to offer. Yet of those friends, they certainly weren't making any offers to me.

Crimson, it is certainly true that you have a lot to offer, the thing is, it is my experience that people will state the obvious and yet still do nothing to snap up that which is desirable. I suspect that holds true not just for your female friends, but also for your W.

No... I don't understand that... it's just an observation.