My world got turned upside down

[littleGTO]

Hang in there, limbo! They don't call this a roller coaster ride for nothing!

The thing is you will eventually get to a place where you realize that like it or not this is YOUR journey, too. And, it is NOT on the same path right now as your H's.

You need to refocus your attention on YOU. You are worth it and your H may or may not wake up to smell the coffee before he realizes that he's missing out on someone great. And, then HE may be pursuing YOU.

For now, though, you have to take care of you.