I know one reason my H & buddy & wife get along is because they've made a pact "you keep my secrets & I'll keep yours".Also they"re less family oriented & so are free to go here & there. I've got 3 children 2 lug around & H has never done much w/ them at all...too much trouble. My H seems to have a cowgirl fantasy & that's just not who I am. Nor am I one w/ a bubbly personality..but ppl would call me fun. I feel like he wants a diff personality type. I think I have done 180 on being controlling.... Any suggestion how I can 180 on trusting him? I no longer question him outwardly but I honestly don't trust him or his word at face valu. I use to... I do not have a lock on my phone & leave it lying around,& try to let him know where I go. But he has never wanted 2 know those things, b4 or after A. He gives me blind trust so I will return the favor.
H;30 M;31 M9yr D9 D7 D3 H EA 2009 EA 11 Me PA 2012 H-ILYBNIL 5/13 in EA maybe PA
