If you are deciding to be patient then he is not stringing you along. You are standing.
If you try to guess the future and make decisions based on pride and hurt feelings and scorekeeping, which is what "annoyed" and "stringing me along" sound like, you may benefit from reading more from the vets on here and the 38 rules.
While you are being patient is a good time to do 180s and GAL like crazy. Do things for you. Become a spouse only a fool would leave. He might be that fool but you won't be helping him along with a sour attitude. Good luck!
Hi, Adinva, that is hard for me to hear, the truth. I know deep down that my sour attitude is only hurting things. If I could get past all of this anger, and fear I would feel so much better. I am not sure how to get past all of this resentment that I feel. I am so scared right now. You're right that I need to make the best of the situation, by being patient. And that I need to stop worrying about him so much just start getting busy with my own life.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
