UW ~ I think his body is freaking out too. I was shocked that he woke up in the middle of the night after having so much to drink. He is usually down for the count till morning.
You know, I'm sure it's easy for OW to be "understanding" and " sympathetic" with H about his health issues when you don't live with him and they impact your life. Every single day.
I think when they first got into a R, it was easy for him to forget his health problems. Maybe they even "went away" when they were together.
But that scenario can't last forever. Reality has slowly been creeping in...
I know this isn't true, but I feel like it is dying the slowest death in A history.
Pull the plug already!!!!!
Linda~ the itchiness is from his auto immune disease and super dry skin. I think MLC has amplified all his health issues.
When I went for my facial the other day, I asked the lady if there was anything that could help my H's excessively dry skin. At this point, the palms of his hands look like they have been attacked by a cheese grater, and his fingers (especially his joints) are swollen, dry, and sore.
She said that no topical treatment would help, he had to drink lots of water, decrease salt intake, eat foods high in water.
I wanted to add stop having an A with my fat ex- friend to the list, but I refrained lol!
Snodderly ~ I see him continue to spin down and down...
I think it was you that said you didn't think we heard the last from my MIL about his trip. You were right - as always lol!
She calls tonight as I'm giving S3 his bath. I could hear part of the conversation:
H- "I didn't know (sister's name) was coming in then when I scheduled my trip. Tell (niece's name) I'll miss seeing her too. Yeah, I'm going with the guys from golf league. From what I hear, the courses are nice there."
Now the funny thing is, he usually tells me when his mom calls and what she wanted. Not a peep about this phone call though!
It will be interesting to see if his sister says anything to me. We are close in age, in the same profession, both moms, have similar senses of humor. I enjoy her a lot.
She has always been one to get on H because he doesn't like to travel and never comes to visit her. I think a five day beach golf trip may seem a bit fishy to her. Oh well. His problem!
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Good day today, at least for me. H said he didn't fall asleep till 3:00 am. He was tired and not feeling well all day.
Before yoga this evening, I did some yard work. It was a beautiful day here, not a cloud in the sky.
When we first moved in, I planted daisies. Now, they are huge and out of control! I love them though, they look very nice.
So for the first time ever, I cut myself a bouquet and put them on the kitchen table. They may me smile when I look at them. I don't know why I never thought of this before.
Seems like there are a lot of things in life I never thought of before.
One last thing...
At yoga tonight, I ran into a female co-worker of H's. She and H used to be friends. But - surprise, surprise!- OW doesn't like her, so H dropped her like a hot potato!
I talked to her for a bit - about yoga, work, her kids.
When I got home, I told H that I saw her. I wish you could have seen the look on his face. This is what he says to me - "So, what did you guys talk about?"
What??????
Hmmmm... I think that look on his face may have been worry. Very interesting.
Well, tomorrow we are taking the kids to a theme park about an hour away. We figured if we went during the week, it would be less crowded. Hope H can get some sleep tonight!
Wish us luck
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
