Dont know what to do...

[Cianna]

Thanks Kaffe.. There's the issue of when the OR is ended... It has to be TOTALLY his idea and desire or he will simply feel manipulated. What's on my side in that regard is she is a known cheater and manipulator. If she holds true to form, he will dump her.

I've joined a bunch of local groups.. The upside; should get me out more... The downside.. Our town is SO SMALL that word will get back to him pretty quick, and it will be in the form of rumors that Im dating. I consider myself married, in a het mono relationship.. I guess I cross that bridge when I come to it...

One of my 180s is taking off my rings. I always said I was never going to do that because I don't want the divorce.. They are fairly sizeable diamonds, and worked as "animal control" when I was out. Had to give up that security blanket to really detach and live "as if".. Odd being "single" yet not after being married for so long...