interestingly enough her dad moved away when she 9 and never came home
My W's dad SA'ed her, and then emotionally withdrew from her and the family (and most of life itself actually) somewhere around/during ages 7 through 13-14...
PON, I see you starting to connect the dots towards understanding, instead of just reacting...do you feel it?
Keep going, and go back into other sitches and archives here in mlc-land,,,I think you will get something more this time...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
