A Feral Cat, Puzzling 2

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And some info for my own use, and anyone else (PON?)...I was thinking about what Snodderly said a couple/few weeks ago about W picking up on my anxiety and me temp checking W...so of course I had to run that down

From the psychologist who wrote the book on affairs that saved me and my sanity back in phase 1 in 2010...just something to chew on for myself.

Here are some characteristics of a Non-Anxious person:
1. A Non-Anxious person conveys an aura of calmness, surety and confidence in both voice and body language.
2. A Non-Anxious person does not defend, explain, attack, blame, withdraw or react. A Non-Anxious person stands firm and is an emotional rock.
3. A Non-Anxious person has a huge capacity for empathy but little for sympathy.
3. A Non-Anxious person has no need for adrenaline or drama but is fueled by concern and the truth.
4. A Non-Anxious person can point out something huge, without it being a big deal. A Non-Anxious person speaks and it is heard – powerfully.
5. A Non-Anxious person can convey passion without and undercurrent of persuasion or neediness.
6. A Non-Anxious person is in control of self and has no need to control another.
7. A Non-Anxious person is admired and respected by most others, even though the other may see the world differently.
8. A Non-Anxious person states his/her position clearly and firmly.
9. A Non-Anxious person does not blink.
10. A Non-Anxious person refuses to play mind-games.
11. A Non-Anxious person conveys: what you see is what you get.