BRNR, sorry to high jack your thread, but I have a lingering question about whether my H is in MLC or not. I didn’t any changes in him that Snodderly described. I saw some other changes. Like he was more moody and even angry at things and people. He stopped liking some people. He kind of lost interest in some of his activities (golf), but later explained it to me that he wanted to save money. We had plenty of money at the time for some recreational activities. H’s Dad died 2.5 years ago. His Dad was diagnosed with MLS one year before he died. It was a slow degradation and it was painful to watch when we visited a couple of times. There was only one change in the clothing pattern, he started wearing the flip flops, when he would never do it before. I’m not sure if I can pinpoint anything else.
So, If I go by the big event in H’s life (his Dad getting sick), it should about 3 to 3.5 years since the start of MLC. I think that his MLC is a mild one (if it is MLC at all), so he should be pretty close to the end of it, right? He started communicating with me more recently. He now calls instead of text, but it is all about business. So, I’m not sure how to interpret this. Is he trying to reconnect, or he is getting more comfortable with being friends?
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
