T thanks. For some reason I am relating to your posts more then others. Can you comment on some examples of boundaries that you threw some truth darts out at.

"But, after getting my bearings, the few times I did initiate was mostly to drop "truth darts", or to let her know my boundry had been crossed..."

One boundary that is being crossed by me that I am having a hard time getting my balls up to address is her texting "guy" friends and hiding it from me. I don't like it. I feel its disrespectful and rude