Originally Posted By: suckerpunch
That's great! Let her come. Show her how confident and fun you are. Show her your 180's. Keep it light. Don't take the conversation toward relationship talk or especially divorce talk, unless she initiates. And even if she does, validate, listen and don't add your two cents, just listen and validate. That is your role in that scenario.

Man, you have a real opertunity in front of you. Plan for it. Get your head in the game and show her a man that only a fool would leave. cool


Your right. Just trying not to have any expectations at all and treat it as a old friend coming to visit. Going to be the first time seeing her in over 2 months.


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB