Me 8 months on, dark and trying to detach.

[Fartiltre]

Hi HWA

Just came across this posted by AS:
You know it all - but do read it!

First I just want to emphasize to you that this is a marathon, not a sprint. Many of us came here expecting quick fixes, but there are none. Rarely does a sitch turn around in less than a year. Most people don't have the patience it takes and quit trying long before things start to turn around. So sit back and take a deep breath and prepare yourself for a lengthy journey. It may seem "unbearable" now, but you're hopefully going to learn a lot about yourself and find patience that you didn't know you had. Good luck!

HWA, you are not moving ahead.

I do agree on this one!
The points you posted will keep you stuck!
You have the path made out - continue walking it and keep on posting!