TVS, you are fabulous! That was some 16 hour goIf outing, but you handled the whole thing perfectly. No coldness or accusations, just accepance of where your H is right now. And I'm so glad you had a nice facial and massage, so relaxing!
Is the itching due to you H's autoimmune disease? Maybe, like my mom used to say when my face broke out, it's the "badness coming out" LOL! I agree that ther's not much chance Twinkle will even touch his back, let alone put lotion on it, during his spells. Sand and salt water should be great for it too! Such a sympathetic woman he chose -- this trip should REALLY open his eyes and help him see what a gem he has in you.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17